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Part-time cynic

If best intentions hold steady, I’ll be returning to work in some capacity in less than a week’s time. A week is an important psychological boundary for me. When I thought to myself, “I’ve still got a week before I need to go back,” I felt comfortable in knowing that no matter how tired I felt at the moment, I still had a significant amount of time to build up…
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CancerGoing for Broke

Beware of area code 352

My wife thinks I’m being silly. But that’s not news. My latest adventure down the road to lunacy involves my alma mater: The University of Florida. It was about mid-April when I received my very first solicitation for money. “Can we count on your donation of $1000?” If I had been drinking it would have shot from my nose in a fountain of incredulity. “Ah…
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CancerFamily and Friends

She’s killing me with kindness

If you’ve read any of my previous posts, you know all about cancerboy… so I won’t rehash my physical condition to date. But keeping it in mind, how do you suppose my body would respond to a sudden spike in physical activity? That’s where my wife comes in. She thought it would be a great idea to get me a Wii for father’s day. She gave it to me tonight so we’d all…
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CancerFamily and FriendsGenealogy

Slow and steady

Today was the first day since the chemotherapy started that I can honestly say I enjoyed. No, the cancerboy isn’t back to 100 percent; not even 75 if truth be told. There was this unfortunate incident with a plunger and a toilet that I don’t even want to talk about, other than to say the ordeal left me physically drained. Although, working out your plumbing related issues with the…
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Cancer

This is home

Friday was a strange day. I had spent the last two weeks in a single isolated room. Despite the disruptions, the rhythmic noises of the hospital slowly became what was “normal.” Then just as abruptly as the hospital stay began, it ended. When I got home nothing seemed normal anymore. Everything was off, down to the smell. I asked Cheryl if she’d sprayed something or changed any…
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CancerWellbeing

For once I was right

I have a lot of experience being a visitor in a hospital. When it comes time to leave, I’ve often thought that evenings must be the most lonely time. If you’re visiting someone in the hospital, you’re almost always leaving someone behind when you go. Evening seems like a time when a lot of people might be leaving people behind. In a few hours I’ll have been in this hospital…
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Cancer

Must… stop… scratching

Foreword: I generally like my doctors. Sometimes I wonder if my doctor has a string in his back and someone gives it a pull every time he’s supposed to speak… “Good morning doctor.” “You’re looking good today.” “Yeah, but I can’t shake these fevers.” “Your blood cultures have been negative.” “Well this rash is killing…
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