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Helping those who want to see the light

We had an unexpected visitor on Friday, a little boy who lives down the street. Beth was just tickled to have someone over to play at her house again. Later, when the boy’s father came over to pick him up, he was bathed in the glow of our tech savy. Sitting in the corner was our old bondi blue iMac and our new iBook. “Youv’e got to talk to my wife”, the boy’s father…
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This Week: 5/29/2002

There’s not much to say about this last week, but I’ll try… Dad got out of the hospital on Friday. There was nothing wrong with that. We had a long weekend, by virtue of the holiday on Monday. There was nothing wrong with that. I got to sit in bed until 11a.m., on a day when I would normally be at work. There was certainly nothing wrong with that. I was in bed with the lingering…
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This Week: 5/22/2002

What will I have to say this week? There was another week at the office. There was a weekend to follow. There was another trip to the hospital. There was the onset of a cold. Oh, and there was a graduation. What can I say about work? While I enjoy my job, I still have those times where I’d rather be just about anywhere else. Last week was like that. You go to work, but you’re there in…
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This Week: 5/8/2002.

It is dark. There is something not quite right with the world. You are not quite sure what it is, but you know it is out there. A respite! Is it gone? No. It has come again. Suddenly you know what it is. The phone is ringing. It was ringing a moment ago and now it’s back. You look at the clock and notice the time: midnight. You get up and answer, because you know if someone is calling now it…
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Beth

One tooth, three teeth

Beth is holding three pencil erasers in the shape of teeth. She advises me (in her typically loud fashion, as if from half way across the house) she has three toothes. Recognizing the grammatical error, I explain to her she has three teeth, not three toothes. Beth, being a relatively stubborn child, insists she has three toothes. This goes on for about a minute or so before I convince her there is…
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Frustration, mommy and daddy style.

Tonight we reached another milestone. We’ve crossed one more bridge for the first time. We can look back, but we can’t go back. We can only hope not to cross it again, or at least not very often. When her tower of legos unexpectedly tumbled, and consumed with the fire of extreme frustration, Beth exclaimed, “OH SHIT!!!” She said it with emphasis. She said it with gusto. She…
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Beth

A Florida Winter.

“Hey Beth, do you want to go outside and feel how cold it is this morning”, daddy asked at 8 a.m. this morning. “Yeah!!”, Beth replied enthusiastically. “O.K., I’ll pick you up and carry you since you don’t have any shoes on.” They go just out side the door and rush back inside without hesitation. “Daddy, what temperature is it in here?&#8221…
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Child Takes Initiative, “Cleans” Bathroom.

DUNEDIN – Using only the objects available to her: a toilet (the sink was too high to reach) and the brush beside it; Elizabeth Kauffman did her best to clean her parents bathroom early this evening. “I put the brush in the water and I put the water there and there and there and there and there” said Elizabeth, describing the scene to her father. Those on the scene describe the…
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Remembering my grandmother.

These last several years, I had the impression that my grandmother was not a happy person. Perhaps I am not the best person here today to make this assessment, but despite being separated by geography and circumstances, we did speak on the phone occasionally. When we did, she invariably mentioned that most of her loved ones and friends were long gone. I was listening to National Public Radio the…
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Siblings.

Every so often, the topic of having more children comes up. Sometimes it is a joking reference from an acquaintance. Sometimes it is a prodding from my in laws. Sometimes it is a serious conversation with Cheryl. Other times, it is just me. . .sitting and thinking. . .like right now. On most of these occasions, many of the same tired arguments are raised: “do we want Beth to be an only…
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